1. “Low maintenance” is low self-worth disguised as being “chill.” 2. The women who say they’re “not high maintenance” are usually maintaining everyone but themselves. 3. “Low maintenance” women get assigned to the emotional labor department. People start seeing you as the support system and nothing else. 4. You’re not avoiding conflict, you’re postponing it. That resentment will build. 5. You become everyone’s first choice for help and last choice for everything else. 6. You’re optimizing for o