1. “I feel safe to soften around you.” Men rarely hear this. A lot of them are used to feeling like they have to prove themselves, and chase validation. But when a woman genuinely relaxes into her feminine energy around him, it awakens something protective and devoted in him. Example: Instead of: “Why don’t you plan anything?” You say: “I love when you take the lead sometimes. It makes me feel held.” Watch how fast he suddenly starts planning dates :) ⸻ 2. “I noticed that you remembered that abo